Today, July 14, 2011 my wonderful pea turns 18.
This day was foreshadowed by an almost surreal weekend over the 4th of July. Aidanne has been taking her brother (12) to Blue Mound where they both are working as caddies. This left a full 5 days where my husband and I were alone all day for the first time in 18 years.
It was almost like dating...we actually have something to talk about other than our children...wow, what a concept. I like it.
Vince is loving it. We're young (we've been married 24 years on the 11th, but I was 12 when we said 'I do') so we still enjoy seeing each other naked. (I have a feeling I'm going to feel young enough for this when I'm 95 and he's 99. I'll keep you updated in 50+ years.) We were giggling like teenagers with the thrill of being in the buff in broad daylight without fear of young eyes being scarred for life. Almost gives one a reason to look forward to a sometimes empty nest.
Probably more information than you, dear reader, want or need to know, which is why I'm not publicizing this particular post. My point is this: life changes and gives us circumstances that could and sometimes will be fraught with pain and if not pain a pang for what is lost. It's up to us if we wish to wallow or get naked in the sunshine.
Happy birthday, Sweetheart. I sure am enjoying watching you grow.
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